EVERYTHING HAPPENS PERFECTLY!

*DISCLAIMER: This Article is not meant to discredit, downplay, be insensitive towards unfortunate events that happen to you, me, or anyone. It is merely an effort to uplift and encourage all readers.

Everything Happens Perfectly

aka...

Everything Happens for a Reason

It is what it is

So it is as it shall be

The Silver Lining

Perfect Imperfections

I already know the questions you are going to ask...

“What do you mean everything happens perfectly?!...”

“How can you say that with all of the bad things in the world today?...”

“I thought nothing or no one is perfect?....”

A couple of friends of mine warned me that the statement “Everything Happens Perfectly” may cause some people to be offended or angered. Especially those of us that have experienced a loss of a loved one, violence, sexual abuse, and injustice.  I would like to say to all victims of bad things, you are a strong soul to endure such hurt and pain. The world is a better place because of you and your bravery and endurance. Rest assured that the souls causing harm will experience the inescapable consequences of their actions in some form or another. To all victims of bad things, you will experience relief and growth from your experience if not now, then soon enough.

Why do I say Everything Happens Perfectly? Because, i believe that the mechanics of the universe operate flawlessly. It is my understanding everything that happens to me is completely decided by some conscious or unconscious part of my being. When something ‘bad’ happens to me, I remember that “Everything Happens Perfectly” and it allows me to get a handle on the issue quicker, easier, gentler, and with more grace. I limit the amount of time I ask myself the agonizing “WHY ME!?! WHY ME!?!”. Because I live by the philosophy that all struggles have a purpose and end with happy endings. I try to keep my eyes peeled and look for the larger growth opportunity, silver lining, higher reasoning, why this ‘BAD’ thing just happened. I admit that it isn’t always easy, but the Higher Reasoning has always revealed itself to me which helps reinforce my philosophy that Everything Happens Perfectly!

Scientifically, I believe that Everything Happens Perfectly. Recently, the largest scientific breakthrough in modern times revealed that we are all, scientifically, connected quite literally as ONE. Look up the Higgs Boson or Higgs Field. This has been called the “God Particle” that some presume that the Higgs Field is the source of said Higher Intelligence. I, personally, believe this to be “God” and I believe God is perfect, thus EVERYTHING IS PERFECT. It is Quite Simple(or Naive)!

Check Out Higgs Boson Explaination by Physicists Michio Kaku and Brian Greene

Everything is Perfect Logic

1).Everything(without exception) is made of the scientific “God Particle”(Higgs Boson).

2).God is Perfect.

3).Everything, Everyone, and Every Circumstance is Perfect.

Perfect Paintbrush Paint Analogy

If one takes a paint brush, dips it into a can of red paint, and splatters paint on a white wall it will, seemingly, display as random paint splatters. From my point of view, each splatter is not randomly placed. Each pattern is intricately calculated and intentionally placed by a super duper smart intelligent entity into its exact precise coordinates where it was meant to be in the time-space continuum of the Universe!

1). The divine inspirational thought enters the mind with a certain magnitude(Urgent or Subtle)

2). The Painters Neurons fire through the brain and body accordingly(with intense feeling or subtle feelings)

3). The Body responds with the corresponding “Flick of the Paint”(Fast or Slow)

4). The Drops of paint travel through the air at the corresponding velocity, angle, trajectory that are allowed by the Laws of Physics.

5). The drop of paint lands on the canvas at the corresponding coordinate at the exact Space & Time already set in motion by the initial thought and inspiration.

6). None of it was random and none of it was an accident.

Each autumn leaf blowing across the yard is not on a random, mindless trajectory through space. However, each leaf is on well calculated path by the Higher Intelligence towards its destiny.

A person with an injured leg hobbling down the street isn’t taking random foot steps towards their destination. Instead, their soul or the God part of them(which I believe we all have) is directing the electricity through their body down to their feet and dictating a precise spot(down to the millimeter) on the sidewalk for each step taken. Ultimately, guiding them to the spot that was meant for them.

What is the definition of “Perfect”? No two people have identical definitions of what “perfect” is. Why is that? Maybe we can decide what “Perfect” means to us.  Although I don’t believe everything is ideal, I do believe everything is Perfect!

If you buy into my philosophy that Everything Happens Perfectly, then Perfect. If you don’t... then PERFECT! :)

Jae Haile’ Phillips - Chief Happiness Officer

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THE PURPOSE OF LIFE : The Answer is….

The purpose of life is to DO WHAT YOU WANNA DO! What else Shall you do with your OWN LIFE?

·         Should You do what other People want you to do?

·         Should You do what your parents expect you to do?

·         Should You do what your religious community expects of you?

·         Should You do what Society imposes on you?

·         Should you live to make other people happy?

·         Should you live to satisfy the approval of others?

·         Should you do things that make you Miserable?

·         Should you do things that don’t bring you Joy?

·         Is there anybody that exists that is more of an expert about you Than YOU?

·         Should You live life in a way where you will look back and regret NOT doing Something?

·         Is it okay to live the life that you OWN doing Anything that you DON’T want to Do?

The answer to these Questions is a BIG, FAT, NO!

If you wanna be miserable...Great! At least you are doing what you want to do and being what you want to be. If you don't you want to be miserable, then simply change your mind and be happy. Happiness is a decision.

Do not let anyone discourage you from DOING WHAT YOU WANNA DO, They are not the expert of you, YOU ARE THE EXPERT OF YOU!

If you take the risk to DO WHAT YOU WANNA DO, you will find a strange peace you may have never felt before.

If everyone suddenly followed our hearts desire, the world would be an instant UTOPIA! It’s really that freakishly Simple. 

If you are NOT doing what you want to do in life, then you are simply wasting your life.

DO WHAT YOU WANNA DO…IT’S WHAT YOU WERE BORN TO DO!

Yippee! The World is Getting Better!!/World Changing Headlines

It is pretty much common knowledge that if we turn to the news on the TV or Internet it is mostly a stories INUNDATED with Negative Outlooks. Rarely, is the positive news pulled to the forefront of our consciousness by our 'trusted' media outlets. The World is indeed getting better, we just need to open our eyes to see! Below are Positive World Changing News Headlines!

CANCER RATES FOR MEN ARE DOWN

http://www.manupabouthealth.com/prostate-colon-lung-cancer-rates-down/

US CANCER RATES DECLINING

http://health.usnews.com/health-news/family-health/cancer/articles/2011/03/31/us-cancer-rates-continue-to-fall

AIDS VACCINE APPROVED BY FDA

http://www.examiner.com/article/aids-vaccine-approved-by-fda-for-at-risk-groups

FIRST MAN CURED OF HIV

http://cnnpressroom.blogs.cnn.com/2012/07/24/timothy-ray-brown-to-sanjay-gupta-hiv-completely-gone/

 

LARGEST SCIENTIFIC DISCOVERY IN OUR LIFE TIMES...HIGGS BOSON aka "The GOD PARTICLE"...Scientifically proves that we are ALL ONE!

http://cosmiclog.nbcnews.com/_news/2012/07/03/12547980-the-higgs-boson-made-simple?lite

 

MANY DISCOVERIES OF WATER PLANETS AND TONS OF WATER FOUND IN SPACE

http://www.universetoday.com/87669/huge-resevoir-of-water-discovered-in-space-30-billion-trillion-miles-away/

http://www.thestar.com/news/world/article/1135043--new-water-world-planet-found-by-nasa-a-prime-candidate-for-study

WE ARE ON MARS!

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/08/29/new-hd-mars-pictures-curiosity_n_1840585.html

New Species Of Monkeys with Human-Like Face Discovered by Scientists RECENTLY!

http://www.latimes.com/news/science/sciencenow/lat-sci-sn-first-new-monkey-species-in-years-discovered-in-the-congo-jungle-20120913,0,2822121.story?track=rss

SEVERAL NEW SPECIES DISCOVERED

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/earth/earthpicturegalleries/9285698/The-top-10-new-species-for-2012-include-sneezing-monkey-and-blue-tarantula.html?frame=2228211

     

DRIVERLESS CARS NOW IN CALIFORNIA!!

http://www.bbc.com/news/technology-19726951

 

It's my Duty as the Chief Happiness Officer to provide you with these very important Headlines.

Keep your head up...Humanity is Evolving...In a Good Way :)

Here are a few websites that provide HAPPY NEWS! :)

http://www.happynews.com/

http://positivenews.org.uk/

http://www.goodnewsgazette.net/Entertainment/Entertainment.html

Please share some more good, positive news with us. We would love to read it!

Jae Haile' Phillips - Chief Happiness Officer :)

QUESTION GOD!

QUESTION GOD!

I was born and raised in St. Louis Mo...a HUGE Catholic City. I grew up Catholic Christian from childhood where I attended St. Alphonsus Rock Church (Black Catholic Church). I also attended an All-Boy Catholic Jesuit High School (St. Louis University High College Preparatory) in St. Louis. This afforded many opportunities to Question God or to 'CALL GOD OUT' so to speak? I am thankful that it was encouraged in my high school Theology Classes.Below I provide a List of Questions that I USED to have for God and Questions that I STILL have for God.  These "once were" or 'still are' my questions. They do not, necessarily, reflect the views of my Family and Friends. Personally, it is important for me to create a relationship with a Higher Power and to do that I've always felt compelled to ask God questions that I deem crucial for my Spiritual Journey. These questions led me out of Catholic Cacoon and into my ever-growing spiritual journey.

 Old Questions I Had for God as a Catholic/Christian:

1. If God is So Loving, Why Would You Punish Someone for ETERNITY with Firestorm for 75 years of a Bad Life? How is this Fair and Just?
2. Why would you send ALL MUSLIMS, ALL JEWS, ALL BUDDHIST, ALL NON-CHRISTIANS TO HELL just because they Don't believe "Jesus" is the WAY?
3. Why would homosexuals go to hell? How fair and loving is that?
4. Did Jesus have a sex life? What was his sexuality like? How come the church completely ignores his sexuality(ages 13-30)? Would this be healing for sooo many adolescent christian youth's if they knew about Jesus' Sexuality especially ages 13-30?
5. Why do you allow so many horrible, bad things in the world if you are so loving and caring?
6. If Jesus is the ONLY SON of YOU(GOD) and we are, suppposedly, all God's Children, Are the rest of us a. BUNCH OF STEP-CHILDREN? 
7. Why is having sex out of marriage bad, when it feels SO Good(with the right loving person)?
8. Why does the Straight and Narrow, Good Path Life seem so BORING?
9. How is it FAIR that we all are born into 'ORIGINAL SIN' because of two individuals, Adam and Eve? It's not like, some of us would have made the same choice.
10. What does God REALLY look like?

New Questions I have for GOD Currently:

1. What does it mean to 'Live in the Moment'? Am I living in the moment right now?
2. Am I doing Enough to achieve my Dreams and Goals in Life?
3. Am I playing my role in making the world a better place?
4. Am I successfully following, listening to my intuition? How do I know what my intuition Feels like?
5. Am I Happy Enough?
6. How do I get over my fear of success and/or fear of failure/rejection?
7. When Should I Speak?/When Should I Shut the F**k Up?
8. Please Explain the Psyche of people who pick Romney over Obama? Why/How/Where have they been misled?
9. What exactly is the EGO? Is mine SO BIG that I can't even see it in front of my face?!
10. Do I have the most optimal Work/Me-Time ratio or balance?

MY PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD

I describe my relationship with God as like having a Best Friend who I can ask ANYTHING ABOUT ANYTHING. Our banter back and forth varies from Best Friends, Business Partner, Lover, Mentor, Parent.  I am, personally, comfortable using curse words and derogatory language in my PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP with God/Goddess. God is okay with it too! In MY relationship with HIM/HER it's not looked at as disrespectful...THANK GAWD!!(no pun intended)

I LOVE, COVET, CHERISH, APPRECIATE, INCORPORATE my PERSONAL Relationship with what I identify as GOD, GODDESS, UNIVERSE, HIGHER INTELLIGENCE, BIG DUDE/DUDETTE IN DA SKY! WE HAVE FUN!!!

WHAT IS YOUR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD?

What is your personal relationship with God, Universe, etc.? Do you like/love your relationship with God? Do you and God have Fun together?!  Do you Question God?

Many people are intimidated to question GOD. Many view God as the End-All-Be-All of Authority and are afraid to Ask God questions and DEMAND for God to answer them. Many people are spiritually stifled because they don't even THINK to QUESTION GOD. Many People feel that they HAVE asked GOD questions, but Don't Get Answers.

HOW TO READ GOD'S ANSWER

How do you recognize the Answers? From what God has told me, it's simply the first feeling or thought you have after you ask your question. Actually, according to GOD, the answer comes even before you finish asking your questions. We just have to get good at catching the answers. We have to train ourselves to recognize the physiological signs of a GOD answer...similar to how we've subconsciously know how to read 'Car Language' from other drivers, with an ATTENTIVE EYE. The more we practice, the better we will get.

How To Read God's Answer

1. Ask the Question/s.

2. Consciously Focus on First Feeling and/or First Thought during the question or immediately after your question.

3. Note the Feeling and/or Thought.

4. Interpret the Feeling and/or Thought.

5. Assign/Apply what you FEEL or THINK should be the answer to your Life. :)

God/Goddess/Universe Etc will answer in a way that only YOU will quite understand. 

QUESTION GOD, FIND YOUR ANSWERS, FIND YOURSELF!

Send this to anyone who, like me, needs assistance in finding themselves.

LOVE Y'ALL,

Jae Haile' Phillips - Chief Happiness Officer - CHO :)

'STOP SNITCHING' IS DUMB AS F**K!!! / IT'S BLACK COMMUNITY SUICIDE!

RANT
I'm sorry Y'all For Cursing. But FUCK THAT BITCH SHIT!!! MURDERING IS SOME BITCH SHIT!
It's Simple...IF YOU MURDER, YOU A BITCH!!!

STOP SNITCHING IS BLACK COMMUNITY SUICIDE
Whewww...I had to get that off of my chest! In my rich, beautiful, black culture, we, OBVIOUSLY, have so  many gifts that we offer the world and this planet. However, there is a mindset brewing in too many of our young, black, underrepresented youth that, Killing with Guns is 'COOL'. Thus momentum of that mindset is catching Steam, thus we see more Senseless Killings. What's More, In many of our black communities, we uphold, praise, and respect the STOP SNITCHING Policy. For those who are unfamiliar, it is when there are witnesses to a murder, the witnesses WILL NOT turn the MURDERER in to the police for fear of their life if the Bad Guy(or his family) found out You were the SNITCH! Understandable...Right? But, what ensues after that is STREET JUSTICE. The Victims Peeps seek revenge on Bad Guy, then Bad Guy Peeps Go Kill somebody else for some more STREET JUSTICE. Before you know it, there has been 3-8 more murders when it could have stopped at ONE Murder(Still too many).

 That is a very Successful way at eliminating any group of people at a Fast Pace! 'STOP SNITCHING' is BLACK COMMUNITY SUICIDE!!! WAKE UP! WAKE UP! WAKE UP!

It is the 'STOP SNITCHING' Campaign that keeps Black People from finding OUR Killers. Black People Stay Quiet when we witness murder and White People Do ALL THEY CAN TO FIND AND SEND AWAY THIER KILLERS. THUS, WHITE PEOPLE HAVE A HIGHER SUCCESS RATE IN FINDING THE MURDERER THAN BLACK PEOPLE. It's a simple formula. 

Check out this great Interiew with Anderson Cooper, CAMRON(Famous Rapper), and Jeffery Cananda on 'STOP SNITCHING

http://www.cbsnews.com/video/watch/?id=2715238n

RAPPERS
I think Rappers should, PUBLICLY, Donate $1,000,000 towards efforts in ELIMINATING VIOLENCE in our young communities. Whether Rapper's like it or not, they are the ROLE MODELS for most, if not, ALL these YOUNG KILLERS. The Donation will be Win/Win/Win Situation:

1. Rappers Can Brag How They 'DROPPED A MILLI" for the Preservation of our Community.
2. Money will go towards Gun Shot Detection System in Murderous Areas so we can Catch These Fucking BITCHES!!
3. Youth Will Notice that their Favorite Rapper is Promoting Peace, which will hopefully Curb a lot of Violence and provide a NEW, REFRESHING BRAND of a ROLE MODEL.

ARTICLES THAT GOT ME MAD

Darryl Friersons Blog - Ashy2Class.net. Rated Top 50 Black Blogs by Black Enterprise Magazine

http://ashy2classy.net/2012/09/06/megan-boken-and-aniya-cook-murder-and-a-tale-of-two-cities/

5 year old Minneapolis Boy Shot Dead while Sleeping because of Gang Violence.

http://minnesota.publicradio.org/display/web/2012/06/26/news/child-killed-by-stray-bullet-in-minneapolis/

16 yr. Chicago Rapper Killed and Rap Rival Laughs at Murder on Twitter.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/09/06/lil-jojo-dead-teen-chicag_n_1861326.html?utm_hp_ref=chicago

CHOICE

1. Help Killers Kill More by NOT turning them IN. OR..
2. Make our communities safer, especially for the kids, by taking our killers off the streets and transforming the  "Killing-is-Cool" brand that too many youngsters love to identify with.

SEND THIS TO A CELEBRITY AND LET'S SEE WHO STARTS THE MOVEMENT FIRST and Send to ALL of Your FRIENDS and Young Wanna-BE or REAL GANGSTAS :). 

Remember MURDERING is SOME BITCH SHIT, but PEACE is COOL!!! :)

LOVE Y'ALL,

Jae Haile Phillips-Chief Happiness Officer

WOMEN:MEN THE MONOGAMY CONFUSION

DISCLAIMER: This entry is based off of pure generalities, very little scientific evidence, and no expert testimony. It is purely my observations as I've seen them thus far into my inexperienced life.

When it comes to Monogamy, Why are women, seemingly, better at it than men? Why is it the same storyline over and over and over throughout the ages?

Man meets Women...

Woman and Man Fall in love...

Woman and Man get into relationship...

Man cheats on Woman....

Woman Gets Hurt and/or Leaves...

Man feels like a Bad Person. 

It is, rarely, the precious 'Happily Ever After' ending scenario, we ALL FANTASIZE and HOPE for.

WHAT WOMEN WANT
Women, ultimately, want the ONE MAN who provides them with security, protection, and self-confidence. If they find that ONE MAN, they are GOOD! In so many cases if these attributes are fulfilled the woman will be very content with only having eyes for that ONE MAN and there is a strong likelihood she will not 'step out' on her man because of sexual reasons.

WHAT MEN WANT
Men, ultimately, want a woman that can Nurture, Support, Stabilize, and Comfort. When a man finds THAT WOMAN who fulfills these attributes he feels satisfied and, in many ways, complete. However, unlike women, MEN, in most cases, DO still have eyes for other women or still may want to sleep with other women. This attribute of MEN confuses WOMEN.

THE CONFUSION

This confuses WOMEN because it comes across as ungrateful, insensitive, unappreciative, and/or disrespectful when a guy expresses interests or sleeps with someone who is not his significant other. These feelings are justified because women, usually, have dedicated a vast amount of time, energy, emotional investment, dedication and devotion to that ONE GUY. Therefore, It makes the WOMEN feel significantly LESS SPECIAL and makes her 'FEEL DUMB' when a man sexually acts out his sexual desire with another woman who is NOT his significant other.

Men are confused because we have an Innate Need/Desire(or poor excuse), to want to "Spread our Seeds" similar to other Male-Types in nature. The problem is it does not fit within western societies current paradigm of dating.  Men can love a women with all of his heart, and still feel the strong urge to copulate with other women who is not his significant other.  Grant it, women can be sexually attracted to other guys, even while she is in a relationship, but MEN have an extra impetus that makes us less able to Self'-Control our Urges. Women seem to have the stronger self control of the two Human Types.

QUESTIONS FOR SOLUTIONS
HOW DO WE RECONCILE THESE TWO FUNDAMENTAL DIFFERENCES BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN WHEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIPS?

WHAT NEEDS TO CHANGE SO THAT WOMEN DON'T GET THEIR FEELINGS HURT?

WHAT NEEDS TO CHANGE SO MEN DON'T FEEL SEXUALLY STIFLED or BOXED IN?

IS MONOGAMY DYING?

ANOTHER DISCLAIMER:  I want to reiterate that this blog entry is VERY VERY generalized to get across a point. It does not include alternative relationships. I understand that there are Exceptions to this General Concept. I know that There are Men out there who are a "One-Women-kind-of-Guy" and there are Women out there who are a "More-Than-One-Man-Kind-Of-Girl", but I believe these are the exceptions. There is SO much more to be said about this Topic and if you have a different viewpoint...Please Share! :). I love being corrected. :) Which is where you come in.

Help me help us understand this perplexing dynamic...please weigh in with your invaluable feedback so we can figure this thing OUT! :)

Love all Y'all,
Jae Haile' Phillips - The Chief Happiness Officer CHO :)

QUIT YOUR JOB!!!:THE JOB CRISIS

MEMO:

WE ARE IN A JOB CRISIS!! THERE ARE TOO MANY PEOPLE WORKING TOO MANY HOURS!! LIVES ARE AT STAKE!! It's so interesting to observe how we have decided to spend most of our 24 hour days working and sleeping. Here is a VERY, VERY generalized schedule of US Western Society:

7am. WAKE UP/FAMILY TIME : 2 HOURS

9am - 5pm -WORK : 8 HOURS

6pm-9 pm -  FAMILY TIME/FUN TIME : 3 HOURS

10pm-7am-SLEEP 8-10 HOURS

GENERALLY SPEAKING

5 HOURS-Family/Fun Time  vs. 8 HOURS - Work Time 

We Spend Two-Thirds(2/3) of our waking hours dedicated to another entity that is not our Family or Ourselves. We use our MOST productive and fruitful hours/energy as human beings daily usually towards something that is NOT our Dreams or Passions.  Is that wise? Is that the best use of our finite time on this RICH PLANET? Why as a society have we chosen that Work is more valuable than Family/Fun/Play time? If we were, on our deathbed will it be the Awesome Work we accomplish at Corporation A that will matter?...Perhaps...Or will it be the depth of the relationship of family and friends next you holding your hand on your death bed? Please refer to one of the most powerful articles on the web 'Top 5 Deathbed Regrets' http://thenextweb.com/lifehacks/2011/05/31/the-top-5-regrets-people-make-on-their-deathbeds/.

Now, if you love your job GREAT! Keep Working if it brings you happiness! But if you know your, not in the right fulfilling job ( and you know who you are)...it's time to get out! You can either get out impulsively with a loose plan like i did ...or you can really strategize your exit...but START NOW!

What Do you do after you quit your job?...

1. GO FOR YOU DREAMS
2. PLAY MORE
3. INCORPORATE MORE FAMILY/FRIENDS

Important Questions

1. Should Life be 60% Fun or 60% Work? 
2. It's your life...How do you want to spend it?!

YOU GOT THE MEMO

PLEASE SEND THIS TO ANYONE WITH A JOB

Safe, Fun Journeys,
Jae Haile' Phillips - The Chief Happiness Officer (CHO) :)